A young individual in his late 20’s reached out early last year as he wanted a sounding board for something that had been on his mind for a longest time. After series of ugly break ups, he finally found a girl who he really wanted to settle down with. The girl, apparently, had her own share of ups and downs and therefore was leaving no stone unturned to ensure that their meaningful relationship stayed. The hiccup in this was the energies that they put in to make the relationship work. The boy had a hard time letting go of the past which sometimes made him inaccessible to the girl, emotionally. The girl in her quest to let the guy stay tried every trick that relationship experts across the globe had to throw her way, making her emotionally confused and struggling. What seemed like a beautiful relationship from outside, was actually an unauthentic association that thrived on struggles, uncertainty, lack of trust and communication, lack of self-love and respect for own